FYI

Just in case it needs to be said outright, again:

I agree with everything she says here.

I don't "get" the poly lifestyle. It's not something I could ever be. But that doesn't mean I think less of people who are poly. If I don't like someone, it's not because they're poly; it's because they irritate me in some way. I do think some folks approach polyamory in a way I feel is detrimental, but that's not the same thing as disliking them for being poly.

I have plenty of friends whose opinions are not the same as mine. I get over it.