A few years back,
g31g3r was dumped and, soon thereafter, asked to leave the place he'd been living (the two were, so far as I know, unrelated). Now, G31g3r has been a friend of mine for very nearly a decade, and so my partner and I decided to make him our latest stray and give him our spare room for a few months.
One day, G3, as we are wont to call him from time to time, went off on a trip to see a couple he'd met through me:
inebrigoth,
merovingianheir, and a few other of their friends. I was supposed to have gone, but cancelled at the last minute because I didn't feel like going to a RenFaire and was a little depressed besides.
When G3 came home, he very nearly immediately launched into a speech about some girl he'd met. It was full of phrases like "this is the one" and "she's so beautiful" and my personal favorite (can you smell the sarcasm?) "I've never felt like this about anyone."
That last was especially annoying to me, as despite what G3 says, I've heard it before (and so have others, so shut up, you). So I counceled a reining-in of emotion, a step back from the admittedly euphoric feeling one gets when meeting and hitting it off with someone attractive, to get his bearings and not do something rash. He refused to listen, getting downright pissy with me at times, insisting he'd never ever said "This is the one I'm going to marry" before despite my having attended his (now dissolved -- and thank the nine for that) handfasting to another woman years before.
Eventually, he brought this girl to Sacramento to meet his friends, and she was a pain in the ass from the beginning. She was rude, she was irritating, she was everything I'd hoped she wasn't. However, a few days later, I saw her again, and this time she was bearable, if not exactly likable (time has given clarity; her bad first impression was due to her nervousness and our defensiveness when (unwittingly) insulted in our own home). I was told she was moving up here to be with him, and I pronounced this idea daft and said it would never work. Nor was I alone in this.
Problems between G3 and I (unrelated to this woman) resulted in him moving out. I didn't see him until a year later when I went to make peace. And that's when I
really met her, and this time I loved her. And I've steadily gotten to know her more as time has passed, and I can no longer imagine my life without her friendship being a part of it.
And now I'm proud to say that
g31g3r and
elisandra, she of this tale, will be married by this time next year.
I have never been more pleased to be wrong.
Congratulations, you two.
Tei'a tei'an'te